1945. a sister who loves me and needs me..and even says that out loud sometimes
1946. a tender middle child niece. soft spoken, non aggressive, a peacemaker, full of affection and snuggles. love my sweet Chloe Lynn
1947. my new tiny delicate rose gold bracelet..with the accurate word on it "wifey." almost as perfect as an upgraded wedding band ;)
1948. candles. green plants. night time.
1949. hot beverages in the cold of winter
1950. presents. they are so fun to give and also to receive!!
1951. a wonderful weekend with our little family making memories, experiencing lovely cultured things together, tasting delicious food, allowing ourselves to be pampered and relax fully, and have no where else we need to be.
1952. thankful that the dress i bought a long while back and never wore-waiting and hoping for the perfect time to pull it out- fit perfectly for our evening out. it made me feel pretty, classy, and hopeful for a handful more of these lovely days..:)
1953. any peace, no matter how little or lot, is always a gift in my marriage.
1954. after no interaction or response, finally an abundance to let me know i am loved, known, and cared about
1955. sweet friends who were generous in our gift exchange and gave me the most wonderful gifts that i have already put to use-like i said-i love gifts!
1956. harsh yet important truth. a renewed passion to search and pursue it for myself. i want to be a protector and bearer of Christ and His unwavering truth. it is worth it. it is a gift and honor to even be able to share it with any and every one.
1957. two little homemade ornaments sticky with tacky glue and mismatched gems..little polaroid pictures shifting around in the middle of my kids faces and the words are etched with crayon, "Jesus Came For..Ben and Norah." cherished little keepsake gifts.
1958. a husband who is patient, full of long suffering, slow to anger, quick to be soft and listen..
i don't deserve him. nor will i ever.
Sunday, December 18, 2016
Friday, October 7, 2016
19345-1944
1935. the ability [only by God's gift to give me eyes to see] that the outside of me does not matter-it can't matter-compared to the glory of Christ. it is only about Him. it is not about me anymore. it never should have been. and thank you God for making that clear
1936. sending back all of my post op surgery equipment..that means i am almost half way through this and i no longer need that stupid chair or those stupid wedge cushions to help me sleep.
1937. thankful for God's unwavering Word. it stands by itself and needs no supplementing.
1938. a trial yes, but an opportunity to not be busy, to not have to be anywhere, a time to learn, grow, and rest. a time to be renewed and reminded of what is important. and that is a vibrant walk with Christ. a dying to self and flesh. shedding off old, and welcoming new.
1940. sweet little voice of Liv Anandi, the way she says her ll's like a w. siwwy biwwy :)
1941. thankful for another season to be challenged and stretched in my marriage. to learn to empathize, practice selflessness, and kill pride yet again so that we might be unified and brought closer to Jesus and to each other.
1942. a one on one catch up with lindsey. rare but meaningful
1943. a surprise visit from chelsea amidst her own chaos, she came and shared peace with me
1944. chili hot chocolate both from starbucks and homemade
1936. sending back all of my post op surgery equipment..that means i am almost half way through this and i no longer need that stupid chair or those stupid wedge cushions to help me sleep.
1937. thankful for God's unwavering Word. it stands by itself and needs no supplementing.
1938. a trial yes, but an opportunity to not be busy, to not have to be anywhere, a time to learn, grow, and rest. a time to be renewed and reminded of what is important. and that is a vibrant walk with Christ. a dying to self and flesh. shedding off old, and welcoming new.
1940. sweet little voice of Liv Anandi, the way she says her ll's like a w. siwwy biwwy :)
1941. thankful for another season to be challenged and stretched in my marriage. to learn to empathize, practice selflessness, and kill pride yet again so that we might be unified and brought closer to Jesus and to each other.
1942. a one on one catch up with lindsey. rare but meaningful
1943. a surprise visit from chelsea amidst her own chaos, she came and shared peace with me
1944. chili hot chocolate both from starbucks and homemade
Monday, September 19, 2016
1928-1934
1928. one strong eye to hold me up while the other gets fixed
1929. the ability to use my other senses, sound, smell, taste, to feel and experience. i appreciate the others when one is weakened
1930. so thankful for the many gifts of food and help offered by friends from church, family close by, phone calls, texts, prayers, Facebook messages, all avenues lifting us up during this time. i am undeserving and humbled. who am i.
1931. a medium rare steak seasoned well in butter and herbs, served on a sizzling platter along with generous sides of loaded potatoes and grilled onions...totally hit the spot and totally worth coming out of hiding even if it was to a greasy spoon. no one could care less about the blind girl in the corner and that's just how i liked it.
1932. the opportunity for my husband to show me he chooses me over work. i didn't have to have that proven to me, but my quiet insecure flesh is glad it was. his service to me is countless and immeasurable. all i know it is in abundance and i am incredibly thankful for this gift. because that's what it is-a present i do not deserve yet given freely.
1933. another chance to be broken. to be made small. to let go of things i might have clung too tightly too. to fix my eyes on Jesus, and pursue Him in the dark place. another chance for Him to shine His glory and to make me more holy as He sanctifies me and cleans me out.
1934. my children. so thankful for them, my heart aches that i can't mother them like normal or hold them and look them in the eye..yet they are resilient and helpful, they are gentle and caring towards me. i am so proud of their little tiny developing characters.
1935. tangibles. like this chair i am sitting in that allows my head to rest in a little hole and give relief to my neck so i can still type and read..or my massage table that i spend hours flat on my face on, another hole to stick my head in. it's all so boring and mundane, but it would be 324546x less comfortable without these things.
1936. a visit willingly and eagerly given by one of my favorites, the little great shepherd. his gentle voice full of tenderness for me, his sitting near me, stroking my hands and my arms in gentle affection, encouraging me and my husband in this desert, taking the time to drive all the way to our house and sit on our couch. to pray with us. to be unrushed and in no particular hurry. what a precious precious gift.
1937. and others. so many people that i love are pouring love onto me by coming and sitting with me. i feel so unworthy of their time and attention, yet they are here, representing Christ and His affection for me, his baby servant. i am so so thankful.
1938. an amazing competent high ranking doctor and surgeon. who actually cares about me and the outcome of my eye. love his jewish fieriness and yet compassionate generous heart.
1929. the ability to use my other senses, sound, smell, taste, to feel and experience. i appreciate the others when one is weakened
1930. so thankful for the many gifts of food and help offered by friends from church, family close by, phone calls, texts, prayers, Facebook messages, all avenues lifting us up during this time. i am undeserving and humbled. who am i.
1931. a medium rare steak seasoned well in butter and herbs, served on a sizzling platter along with generous sides of loaded potatoes and grilled onions...totally hit the spot and totally worth coming out of hiding even if it was to a greasy spoon. no one could care less about the blind girl in the corner and that's just how i liked it.
1932. the opportunity for my husband to show me he chooses me over work. i didn't have to have that proven to me, but my quiet insecure flesh is glad it was. his service to me is countless and immeasurable. all i know it is in abundance and i am incredibly thankful for this gift. because that's what it is-a present i do not deserve yet given freely.
1933. another chance to be broken. to be made small. to let go of things i might have clung too tightly too. to fix my eyes on Jesus, and pursue Him in the dark place. another chance for Him to shine His glory and to make me more holy as He sanctifies me and cleans me out.
1934. my children. so thankful for them, my heart aches that i can't mother them like normal or hold them and look them in the eye..yet they are resilient and helpful, they are gentle and caring towards me. i am so proud of their little tiny developing characters.
1935. tangibles. like this chair i am sitting in that allows my head to rest in a little hole and give relief to my neck so i can still type and read..or my massage table that i spend hours flat on my face on, another hole to stick my head in. it's all so boring and mundane, but it would be 324546x less comfortable without these things.
1936. a visit willingly and eagerly given by one of my favorites, the little great shepherd. his gentle voice full of tenderness for me, his sitting near me, stroking my hands and my arms in gentle affection, encouraging me and my husband in this desert, taking the time to drive all the way to our house and sit on our couch. to pray with us. to be unrushed and in no particular hurry. what a precious precious gift.
1937. and others. so many people that i love are pouring love onto me by coming and sitting with me. i feel so unworthy of their time and attention, yet they are here, representing Christ and His affection for me, his baby servant. i am so so thankful.
1938. an amazing competent high ranking doctor and surgeon. who actually cares about me and the outcome of my eye. love his jewish fieriness and yet compassionate generous heart.
Monday, August 8, 2016
1921-1927
1921. a successful flight, on my own, traveling from grand rapids to California, arriving safely and stretching a little bit in the independent department
1922. a gorgeous drive up to Lake Tahoe, special time with mom and dad english, getting them all to myself
1923. attending a surprisingly fun and enjoyable wedding- not because i don't like weddings, but because i was unsure of who i would know or worried if i was out of place or it would be awkward. it was none of those things! so fun hanging out with my cousins and aunt and uncle, even making new friends with people i used to know a long time ago.
1923. an open bar which again, challenged me to be an adult and confidently walk up to the counter asking for "a gin and tonic please."
1924. deliriously sunny weather every day, and a perfect sunday to sleep in, wine taste and two if my favorite vineyards with mom and dad, picnic, learn about wine, and just a abundance of love and contentment.
1925. knowing my kids are safe and loved back at home wth my own folks and even nathan watching them a little too..
1926. finding peace in placing ben in a school we feel good about.
1927. olive's skin! it's actually soft and clear once in a rarity!!
1922. a gorgeous drive up to Lake Tahoe, special time with mom and dad english, getting them all to myself
1923. attending a surprisingly fun and enjoyable wedding- not because i don't like weddings, but because i was unsure of who i would know or worried if i was out of place or it would be awkward. it was none of those things! so fun hanging out with my cousins and aunt and uncle, even making new friends with people i used to know a long time ago.
1923. an open bar which again, challenged me to be an adult and confidently walk up to the counter asking for "a gin and tonic please."
1924. deliriously sunny weather every day, and a perfect sunday to sleep in, wine taste and two if my favorite vineyards with mom and dad, picnic, learn about wine, and just a abundance of love and contentment.
1925. knowing my kids are safe and loved back at home wth my own folks and even nathan watching them a little too..
1926. finding peace in placing ben in a school we feel good about.
1927. olive's skin! it's actually soft and clear once in a rarity!!
Sunday, July 31, 2016
1908-1920.
1908. summer mornings where I can stay in bed a little longer than usual.
1909. Michigan lakes. so refreshing w all these hot summer days.
1910. God keeps His promises.
1911. being reunited with jana and jeanne and chels. a retreat and time to rest, laugh, and just be together.
1912. friends who encourage me and call out my fears and give me truth to fight them.
1913. camping. lots of camping this summer. time to simplify and just be Wh friends. to ride bikes. to hike. to eat smores. to hammock. to swim.
1914. pedicures.
1915. summer thunderstorms. loud thunder. downpours.
1916. introverted bike rides.
1917. a season w emily in house. she is more of a blessing than she knows.
1918. pike place coffee and white mocha creamer. everyday.
1919. Leena lost her first tooth. bittersweet.
1920. being provided for. thank you God.
Saturday, July 30, 2016
1902.-1907
1902. two plush green majestic palms, gifted by my husband upon returning home, knowing i have been researching and pining away for the perfect plants in my house. i love them. they are tropical and sturdy and their fingers dangle in relaxation. i pray i can keep them alive.
1903. gray gray gray, how is just now that i am completely falling in love with that color? lindsey..i see what you see:)
1904. little vases filled with fresh flowers, all gifted by different friends. they are such a sweet reminder that i am loved and cared for-known by ones close to me. i do not need to choose isolation..
1905. a soft contentedness that is just now arriving in my spirit, a peace that i am now here, i can gently move past the mourning-but not dismissing the forgetting, but welcome joy and dust off the red dirt on my shoes, and allow them to dirty with this new journey ahead. praise You God. You always walk with me.
1906. summer has been so hot and that has been such a gift to my little brown body.
1907. even more sun and heat and no agenda coming up in august..
1903. gray gray gray, how is just now that i am completely falling in love with that color? lindsey..i see what you see:)
1904. little vases filled with fresh flowers, all gifted by different friends. they are such a sweet reminder that i am loved and cared for-known by ones close to me. i do not need to choose isolation..
1905. a soft contentedness that is just now arriving in my spirit, a peace that i am now here, i can gently move past the mourning-but not dismissing the forgetting, but welcome joy and dust off the red dirt on my shoes, and allow them to dirty with this new journey ahead. praise You God. You always walk with me.
1906. summer has been so hot and that has been such a gift to my little brown body.
1907. even more sun and heat and no agenda coming up in august..
Wednesday, July 6, 2016
1895-1901
1895. soft pencil gray paint carefully stretched across our living room walls. the room has bloomed open and it is ripe for creativity in crafting a cozy sitting area.
1896. safe and smooth flight from Oxford to Chicago.
1897. the sun has greeted us in welcome home cheers every single day since we've arrived back to the US. the air is warm and the sky is soft pink and tired blue when dusk comes. Michigan is so beautiful.
1898. a slow but steady process of re entry. reading, writing, learning, sharing, all little tiny steps to a healthy transition. i sit with goodbyes and hellos in both hands.
1899. the freshest salsa and hot chips from On the Border. nothing beats it.
1900. baby Liv, snuggled beneath the quilt next to me..ben, koko, along with their grandpa and dad late summer night fishing at the pond. a bit of peace.
1901. i am not afraid of this desert i have walked into. i welcome it and place my trust in Him. Speak Lord, for your servant is listening with a soft and broken heart.
1896. safe and smooth flight from Oxford to Chicago.
1897. the sun has greeted us in welcome home cheers every single day since we've arrived back to the US. the air is warm and the sky is soft pink and tired blue when dusk comes. Michigan is so beautiful.
1898. a slow but steady process of re entry. reading, writing, learning, sharing, all little tiny steps to a healthy transition. i sit with goodbyes and hellos in both hands.
1899. the freshest salsa and hot chips from On the Border. nothing beats it.
1900. baby Liv, snuggled beneath the quilt next to me..ben, koko, along with their grandpa and dad late summer night fishing at the pond. a bit of peace.
1901. i am not afraid of this desert i have walked into. i welcome it and place my trust in Him. Speak Lord, for your servant is listening with a soft and broken heart.
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